I felt like ignoring him might make things weird at work, so I just messaged back noncommittally (like, “Ha, look who it is”), hoping I could move the conversation to peter out without making it awkward.
However, things got awkward anyway, because coworker continued sending messages despite my polite attempts to disengage (“[Cool, unsolicited weekend plan you shared] sounds fun. ” …and then he’d send another message trying to continue the conversation.) I read and did not respond to the last message.
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It was inevitable that streams would cross and one of us would bring a dude we were dating to a party and watch him slowly figure out where he knew the rest of us from…because if you liked one of us enough to write to you probably liked all of us…and that we all knew each other…that we had definitely had been trading notes about him behind the scenes in the name of safety, solidarity, and hilarity.
His message implied that he was going to ask me out “until he realized who I was,” which made me immediately uncomfortable.
Dude, if you realized that, why did you message me anyway and tell me that?
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